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I had a lovely time at Radio Cornwall yesterday and shared my ways of keeping down the costs of Christmas. I started by talking about food and this is what I do. I bought my meat when it was on offer in our local butchers (Tregeagles) and they were selling Topside for £7.99 a kilo and joints were being sold buy one and get one free. So, as you can imagine, I stocked up and bought beef for under four pounds a kilo. However, you can buy a free range chicken in Lidl and Aldi for £6.00 and they are certainly large enough for a family, with the help of some sausages wrapped in streaky bacon, some stuffing and roast potatoes and veggies, it's certainly a reasonably priced meal. I also keep the costs down by the fact that I've made our Christmas cake, the pudding and mincemeat for the mince pies already. I bought the baking ingredients when they were three for two in Tesco.
At Christmas, some people lose all sense of self control and buy too much and end up over indulging. I save money at Christmas by being careful with portion control so an average joint of beef and normal portion sizes feed us all without any of us ending up looking like our feline friend! I work on the basis of one of each, one potato, one parsnip, one carrot, one tablespoon of peas, one tablespoon of mashed swede, one pig in a blanket, one spoon of stuffing and one good slice of meat. I defy anyone to eat all of that and still feel hungry. Add to this, some homemade Christmas pudding and custard and everyone is fit to bust! Does anyone else work out what they need to cook and therefore buy from portion sizes? I make mincemeat and then of course, mincepies but don't do this too early as the sooner Christmas food is available, the sooner people (by that, I mean me!) start eating it. I'll make mince pies the weekend before Christmas and they are a cheap snack to be enjoyed with a cup of tea. So there we are, I'm even frugal with Christmas lunch and the company are the best bit and we'll be well fed even if it's on a budget!
Then, there's the presents! We've all seen piles like this and some people go mad! When my children were young, we didn't have any money. They were told how much there was for a gift and they could choose something/s up to that value. I was honest with them and they knew if they could or couldn't have something and they soon learnt not to ask for things we couldn't afford. I can honestly say, I can't remember any significant gift from my childhood. I do remember having a nice time at Christmas and watching Morecambe and Wise. I'm sure my children don't remember the gifts but from what they say, they do remember sitting on our bed pulling little items out of a sock! No one needs to spend too much money. I've already mentioned that we give donations to Oxfam in lieu of gifts and recipients think it's a great idea. I think it's far more fun to know someone will get clean water instead of me getting perfume!
Here's another thing I do to save money at Christmas. I don't buy any chocolates and someone will always get me some. Maybe not as posh as these, but some chocolate will always sneak it's way (I try to shoo it away but it won't listen!) into the house. If I buy any, I find we've always got it hanging around in January and I end up giving it away!
Over to you Dear Reader,
What are you doing to keep down the cost of Christmas?
Until tomorrow,
Love Froogsxxx



You have such helpful ideas-I like the amounts for Christmas lunch and of course, no one will be hungry.
ReplyDeleteWe pop the bird's bones in the slow cooker, with left over gravy and carrots then throw in an onion and add water. This cooks itself on high overnight and transforms into wonderful stock.
I'm making all my Christmas presents either sewing,knitting or baking. There is only myself and my parents on Christmas Day so this year we're having a late Breakfast instead of a Christmas lunch and then just tea. It's going to be a continental type breakfast so the only thing that will be purchased is Apricot Crossiants as a 'Christmas Treat', everything else will be homemade as much as possible.
ReplyDeleteFor the past couple of years, with a huge lack of disposable income, I have been making homemade gifts, we made chocolate truffles and cranberry, white chocolate and macademia cookies for everyone last year. This year we are making Ice Cream Sundae kits for the families(with everything you need apart from the ice cream!) and chutneys for those who wouldn't appreciate the kits. The stress of Christmas shopping is a lot less and it's a really good feeling giving a present you have made yourself!
ReplyDeleteI love your portion size guide. I must use that this year. I have tended to cook way too much veg and it all becomes roasted veg soup on boxing day.
ReplyDeleteWe love chocolate. It is our guilty pleasure. So I buy it from the wholesaler online. I buy a huge 50kg sack of 60% cocoa solids belgian chocolate. It sounds extravagant, and it is. We make chocolates for everyone for presents on birthdays, holidays, and to say thank you. We use it to melt down in hot milk as hot chocolate, and when we bake. That 50kg bag costs me £60. It lasts 12 months of all the chocolate and cooking, and gluttony we could wish for and it also has made a total of 58 boxes of chocolates for gifts. 58 gifts and we are able to really spoil ourselves too. I think if I bought my children chocolate at the shop, as a treat just once a week it would be more, let see mental math here (5 children x 5 chocolate bars at 50p =£2.50 x52 = £130!)
So come Christmas everyone gets a box of handmade chocolates, and we don't buy any extras in either. It also gives my daughters and I, a nice hobby to share. If you are looking for chocolate moulds try the charity shops, we found ours there for 10p.
That's quite an astonishing idea--very clever! It sounds outrageous but the economics make perfect sense. Wonderful.
DeleteThink this is a great idea, where do you buy your chocolate? Could you post a link? X
DeleteWhat a brilliant idea!
Deletewhat a wonderful idea - I love it! Could you let us know where you buy your chocolate from? I had planned to make chocolate-based gifts for this Christmas, but can't afford the chocolate. This would mean I could save up and buy chocolate in time for gifts next Christmas.
DeleteWhat a wonderful idea - I love it! I had planned to make chocolatey gifts for this Christmas, but couldn't afford the chocolate. Would you be able to let us know where you buy your chocolate and then I could save up and buy some in time for next Christmas?
DeleteThanks.
My income is very much reduced and has been for the past two years but after years in a very high pressure job, working long hours and being contacted out of hours and whilst on holiday with my children I am so much happier despite the lack of funds. I have time to volunteer and have met some wonderful people. No need for expensive panto tickets for the past couple of years we have all gone to a free carol concert organized by my son's employers and my daughter's two small boys are thrilled to sing along with all the other children and to receive a gift from Father Christmas however small, it's the excitement of being involved and it costs us nothing! My mum loves fruit cake and in the past I have always bought an expensive one from M & S as one of her gifts amongst many others, now I have time to bake one for her! I knit, bake and sew gifts for others and buy throughout the year from charity shops. As a veggie and vegan household we do not have to buy expensive meat but we have little extra treats such as nuts, home made mince pies and satsumas.They don't cost much but evoke Christmas spirit! Things don't make Christmas, people do! Hope you and yours have a good one froogs x
ReplyDeleteMy income is very much reduced and has been for the past two years but after years in a very high pressure job, working long hours and being contacted out of hours and whilst on holiday with my children I am so much happier despite the lack of funds. I have time to volunteer and have met some wonderful people. No need for expensive panto tickets for the past couple of years we have all gone to a free carol concert organized by my son's employers and my daughter's two small boys are thrilled to sing along with all the other children and to receive a gift from Father Christmas however small, it's the excitement of being involved and it costs us nothing! My mum loves fruit cake and in the past I have always bought an expensive one from M & S as one of her gifts amongst many others, now I have time to bake one for her! I knit, bake and sew gifts for others and buy throughout the year from charity shops. As a veggie and vegan household we do not have to buy expensive meat but we have little extra treats such as nuts, home made mince pies and satsumas.They don't cost much but evoke Christmas spirit! Things don't make Christmas, people do! Hope you and yours have a good one froogs x
ReplyDeleteMashed Swede!!! That takes me back! When I was a child the roast beast was always accompanied by "Sunshine" - a mix of mashed carrot, parsnip and swede seasoned with butter and the merest whisper of nutmeg..... Now that you've reminded me I'll make it this year!
ReplyDeleteI've been knitting and sewing all year for family. For my 4 co-workers (who are also friends) I'm making some salad dressing and a baggie of croutons. I've never given them gifts before, money has been just too tight to squeeze out anything extra. But this year I've been extra frugal and extra blessed, and can give them each an edible gift.
ReplyDeleteI've never cooked the way you describe, I always try to cook a little extra for lunches or to eat on a night I don't feel like cooking. Interesting approach, and you're right, nobody will be hungry after those portions.
Ooo MamaDragon, what a fabulous idea!
ReplyDeleteFroogs, I've portioned down over the last few years. It's crazy how we over eat. Our big traditional Boxing Day lunch is turkey, REAL homemade deep fat fried chips and the gravy! NOM ! I think my HG looks forward to this more! Whereas I love my sprouts!
I hope you and yours stayed safe in these awful floods I'm watching on TV.
Great post xx
I have been trying to spread the cost and we have set a budget which includes food and presents - we have to buy for the children in the family, but to be honest, we are struggling at the moment, so not quite sure how much the budget will be x
ReplyDeleteI don't give out many presents, but to those dear to me I give a small print of photograph that I took (I'm a photography major in college). As for food, we usually do potluck at a friends. There is loads of food and we all chip in according to our means. The host usually provides the turkey, and everyone else brings a dish - mashed potatoes, roasted root veggies, veggie friendly casseroles, a crumble. It's less about the meat, usually, and more about the tasty side dishes. I have a very affordable spaghetti squash recipe on my site that feeds loads, and is suitable as a vegetarian main course if you are having a vegetarian or vegan over for christmas dinner. We all take away leftovers.
ReplyDeletehttp://frugaleatingintoronto.blogspot.ca/2012/11/spaghetti-squash-with-roasted-brussels.html
I've decided I'm going to hide in your spare room and spend Christmas with you! LOL
ReplyDeleteHi, Froogs,
ReplyDeleteI will, as always, save loads of money by having a fully vegetarian crimbo. I don`t celebrate christmas as a religious festival, preferring the more traditional festival of Winter Solstice, but I feel that the winter festival is all about compassion, and what better way than to have a compassionate meal? Cheaper, too.
I make all my xmas cards and buy lots of my shopping at Aldi and Lidl which I'd recommend to everyone. I only buy presents now for immediate family and then no more than £20 spent. I listened to you on Radio Cornwall yesterday, good show. Hope you have avoided the dreadful floods, but got a feeling you are on high ground.
ReplyDeleteYou're right! Nobody needs the vast amounts of food on offer during Christmas and the aftermath. I am going to cut down seriously this year but more than just one potato!! I LOVE roast pots so maybe two each....and a cold one to snaffle later. I don't much care about the meat--it's the Christmassy flavours that make the food special--stuffing and herbs. We just have two courses, main and pudding and I try to make the pudding something special. We find Christmas pud a bit too much. But of course by that time we have eaten too many roasties! I am lucky enough to be retired so I can do any shopping through the day when it is quieter and I have lots of time. But I haven't forgotten what it was like when I was working.
ReplyDeleteI used to spend a lot at Christmas on presents but have cut back --just giving tiny things to adults and something more to the children . I have family in Europe --a big family with four children--so instead of trying to give individual gifts I send enough money for a whole family outing--cinema or swimming.
I was told of a bargain last week, Morrisons are doing Turkey drumsticks for £4 - hmm that sounds expensive when I can get a cooked one on the market for £1.99. Anyway I looked after my grandson yesterday whilst my daughter and her partner went to do a big shop and I asked her to look at them. Wow! Its the entire leg and weighs a ton - sadly in my hast to cook it I didnt look at the weight. I roasted the bottom half and slow cooked the thigh - it filled my slow cooker. So we have had sandwiches and wraps from the roast leg and I sliced the thigh for tea tonight and theres enough left for 2 more meals. So tomorrow Im off to buy a couple more for the freezer, if I can squeeze them in!
ReplyDeleteGreat, helpful and timely post. These past few years have brought their challenges on the financial front and I've done my best and then some to not get in debt, to acrue savings and continue to live below our reduced compared to years past, means. It's been difficult at times, but I consider myself blessed to have the skills needed to do what needes to be done to continue to meet my financial obligations in full and to save for my future.
ReplyDeleteThis is our first Christmas as a divorced family. I have 2 teens at home while 2 are in college. I've prepurchased frozen shrimp and a ham for Christmas dinner, as well as ground beef for Christmas eve (I made meat pies). I will need ground pork, and will soon purchase that as well. The other meats were bought on sale. Usual sides: mashed potatoes, some sort of veggie or 2. Dessert will most likely be Christmas cookies. I already have wine purchased on sale, also taking advantage of a rebate.
Christmas decor is mostly what I already own for both indoors as well as outside the home. I did get some battery operated tapers at a discount store @ $2.29/2 count box. I needed 5 total so I bought 3 boxes. I will be making a fresh cut pine spray (to provide some Christmas pine scent) for the front door, but I am simply gleaning off the property and decorating with what I have. I also will be making a glass ornament wreath, all supplies already on hand, for over the fireplace.
I don't have any stockings, but usually reuse Christmas theme decorated paper bags. I also most likely have the sewing material/supplies on hand to craft some, depending on time.
I must buy a tree stand and we voted for a fresh tree. I've budgeted for that. I will use lights and decorations already on hand. A white bed sheet will perform as a tree skirt. I have a ton of boxes, salvedged bows/ribbons and trinkets to decorate packages, as well as a huge stash of wrapping paper, extra tape. I save tissue paper, it irons nicely on low heat, and reuse as often as possible before it becomes too tattered. I make gift tags out of last year's cards. Done.
I purchased cards at the discount shop for 99/box. School photos of the youngest 2 are gifts to extended family, as usual.
I have whittled down our gift giving list (not that it was ever huge) to just the children and my Mom. Gifts will be practical, often second hand or homemade. I may or may not bake a dept group gift as I had done in years past. I skipped it last year-funds were that tight. Frankly, I don't think anyone missed it. Past few years, I did bow out of "Secret Santa" as I didn't have the funds ($30 suggested amount to spend) and what I had received in years past wasn't necessarily things that I could use. I don't mean to sound unappreciative, just seemed like a very impractical expenditure.
This year, I am planning on hosting the dept Christmas party. I've bought both a turkey and a ham (my contribution) at deep discounts, spending under $20 total. Other members in the dept will sign up for the other menu items.
It's really the time spent with family and friends that matters to me.
My gift? I've already splurged this Fall and had my living room suite reupholstered and I bought a standing freezer. Done. Mom did ask me what i wanted for Christmas, I told her a rotary cutter and template as I want to try my hand at quilting and the cutter will be easier on my hands when I repurpose clothing for other household projects, such as draft dodgers, vs using traditional .
Our Christmas dinner will be the usual since moving to France - 15 years ago now.
ReplyDeleteWe start with Fois gras. I buy this just beofre christmas as Auchan always have a 50% reduction and suring the year I have been saving my 'money off' onto my card so that will pay for the Fois Gras. Then we have turkey, if I can find one that does not cost the earth, I am happy with chicken but MOH prefers turkey. Again I wait to the last minute to see if they are reduced. I have bought a piece of gammon from asda, which will be delivered tomorrow, along with a few treats - cheese and onion crisps, twiglets, chocolate orange and the most important of all - wine gums. Every time I do an order these are always requested.
Then xmas pud and home made mince pies. I always make double of the veg and extras because on boxing day, which is not a bank holiday here, we have xmas dinner leftover pie.
My gifts this year will be mostly handmade, quilts for the boys, made from their old t-shirts and backed with a fleece, aprons for them and their girlfriends, all put into sewn gift bags. Hubby will be the only one with a bought present this year. He wanted a new squash racquet, which he has been playing with for the lst month!
Sue
We budget, budget, budget and it works! We work out the price of presents for each person and stick to it. We also save stamps from Morrisons weekly and then they do an offer were you can save £40 off our Xmas food bill, we combine that with offers that run on the way up to xmas. We have a budget friendly xmas. Plus my mum works there so we save 10% on our weekly shop. We have just got our xmas beer on offer and it was to good to miss so it is now living at mums for xmas. Allie xxx
ReplyDeletewe laid down the law--no presents to or from adults in extended family unless its handmade-homemade-upcycled-recycled-thrifted HOPEFULLY they will listen-for our boys we have a gift limit and each boy is getting a tin (up cycled by me) full of a special goodie made by me just for them--my husband and I already said no gifts to each other unless they follow the above rules too--I think we are staring to get through to people we don't need a lot of stuff!
ReplyDeleteI tried that last year. Only one of my girls followed thru and gave gifts she had bought second-hand thru the year. Maybe the others will get the hint soon, as I've told them the same thing again this year.
DeleteMy 8 year old son's favourite present at Christmas amongst all the toys he gets?.....the Satsuma at the bottom of his sack!!! Apparently Santa grows the best! Cx
ReplyDeleteI have ordered my turket from Waitrose- not normally known as the frugal option. But they had an offer that if you ordered your fresh turkey from them you got a £25 voucher. Some of the turkeys actually cost less than £25 but I chose one of a nicer quality so effectively it is costing me £3.
ReplyDeleteNot sure if the offer is still on as it has disappeared from a lot of places.
We're having a different Christmas this year. For the first time ever DH and I are buying each other gifts. We have quite a large budget £75 each but we have the cash and it's something we really want to do. In terms of other gifts we just buy something nice but something we know people will get good use out of - yarn for MIL, a wheelie workman's trolley for my father, I'm making a quilt for my mum and buying her a bag of wine gums (her favourite). I don't make gifts for people other than my mum and DH as I just don't think people would appreciate them in the same way.
ReplyDeleteI'm also cooking Christmas dinner for the first time *excited*. You're right about portion size, when we started writing a list of what we would like - potatoes, sprouts, swede mash for me, stuffing, another veg or two, gravy I thought we wouldn't eat for a week if I did more than a spoonful of each.
We don't buy chocolates either, we know DH's grandmother is going to buy us a chocolate orange each, we have 3 sets of parents to visit on Christmas Eve, Christmas night and Boxing day so that's more than enough chocolate and other stuff to be getting on with and another box of chocolates always sneaks into the stocking somewhere along the line.
I must admit I deliberately cook extra mashed potato and veggies purely because we have "bubble & squeak" for boxing day lunch with cold beef and/or gammon, and a fried egg on top. This is something I have carried on doing, as I remember it well from my childhood.
ReplyDeleteThe leftover white turkey gets sliced and frozen for future dinners and then the dark bits get made into a curry, then the carcass is boiled down for soup, and the scrappy bits picked off to go in that.
We don't have Christmas pudding or cake as there is only me likes them so we have a special ice cream dessert instead. I sometimes get a pudding and portion off for me.
There is only the 4 of us over the festive days but I always slow cook a brisket and a gammon on Christmas Eve and we have the first few slices as hot meat buns for dinner that night.The rest is then sliced once cold and put into the fridge for use over the period (boxing day as above).
Like you we have chosen to reduce portions considerably. Generally we have ham and chicken. A turkey is huge and generally we don't use it as well as we could. Besides we prefer chicken. Like another ready suggested we have a brunch and then wait until the cool of the evening to indulge in a small feast.
ReplyDeleteGifts for my children do depend on need. Today I bought my son new chef's whites. He is happy with that as he can spend the money on something he really likes and I probably would not think of getting him. When they were younger it was generally new pyjamas, a book, a dvd to keep them occupied until the grandparents arrived, something to encourage outside play and something they really wanted. For my father I will buy him something horribly practical and a little treat. Mum has some patchwork stuff put aside. Other gifts are small and chosen throughout the year with a $5 (Aus) per person as the goal. IN a few days I will dig them out and start assigning and wrapping.
I never save on food, because I love to indulge in the most delicious food I can afford once a year! But we make Christmas presents and we do hampers full of homemade things, such as cookies and shortbreads and home made mince pies. I love to make decorations as for me, this is what Christmas is all about, making and decorations and baking and eating and drinking!
ReplyDeleteI make almost all my gifts, and we've never done huge expensive presents. We also give charitable gifts which are always well received! This year amongst other things I've been crocheting loads of pretty cotton dish and face cloths for my niece's homes. Very retro and really useful - they last forever and will take any amount of hard washing! Also madly making gifts for my great niece and nephew's first Christmas! We always have a low key Christmas and don't buy extra 'Christmas food'. For me Christmas is about being grateful for what we have and seeing and sharing time with special people.
ReplyDelete(Oh - Just to let you know - your parcel is in the post!:)
I used to live with someone who went absolutely crazy with treats at Christmas. We were still eating Turkish delight and Quality Street in June! We also had mountains of pressies but were broke for 6 months afterwards.
ReplyDeleteChristmas still gives me the feeling of distaste for the sheer greed of it all. Needless to say my Christmas will be simple.
I loved listening to your radio slot! I've made/am making most of the presents and Aldi is one of my favourite places to shop. We have a lot of food intolerances here in the family so there's no chance of us going overboard with pies, puddings and trifle etc!
ReplyDeleteKepp up the fab work in challenging us all to keep it sensible and remaining sane!
San x
Sometimes my husband and I choose to forgo gifts to each other in order to give something extra special to the poor, or to "Living Waters" through our church. Recently, while visiting our family in anoter state, I was flagged down by a woman begging for a ride to get free food at a charity in town. Since I did not know her (sometimes dangerous people flag you down to rob or kill you), I instead gave her money for a ride and got her phone number. Later, with my husband's approval, I spoke with her. She asked if I could provide her with an electric space heater, as she was cold at night in her house. So we bought two heaters for her and delivered them that night, along with a box of groceries. She was such a sweet lady and cried for joy, thanking Jesus. She now has our phone number if she needs anything again. I think we know who we will be remembering this coming Christmas. :-) I believe she is a gift sent to us from God, as our family is going through an unimaginable crisis, and now we have been given this opportunity to bless someone else in the midst of our need.
ReplyDeleteFroogs, I recently discovered your wonderful blog and it has provided me with many happy hours of escape; sometimes in the middle of the night when I can't sleep. I just tried to put your thumbnail on my favorite blogs list on my own little blog HomeForGood.Net, but only managed to get your web addres on there. I am not a savvy blogger. Any idea how I can do it right to show your blog photo? Sorry to be a pain, Linda
ReplyDeleteWe are having a fairly frugal Christmas this year. Our one paid for treat is to visit Santa on our local little steam railway. Our other outings are visit to the cinema (Tesco vouchers). School Xmas fayre - free - I'm doing the stick on tattoos!!, Christingle service with the Beavers at Piece Hall in Halifax, Christingle Service at our village church. Christmas Tree Festival at the next village along from us and the Festival of Light at Huddersfield - all free and will get us in the Christmas mood, Twiglet is very excited (as am I :)
ReplyDeleteAs you say I never remember toys I received as a child but do remember the happy times I had with my family - family and friends is what Christmas is all about
Twiggy x
I am also new to your blog. I've now got it bookmarked onto my toolbar.
ReplyDeleteI am loving your frugal xmas.
We are cooking xmas dinner this year and I've been worrying about it since it first came up because we are feeding 7.
I've mentioned to my parents that they bring the drink and the pigs in blankets and the cream etc that goes with the puddings so that is a few less things to worry about.
I haven't had that many xmas pressies to get this xmas because I bought them all in January in the sale.
I spent £150 in boots using my advantage points which saved a huge amount of money (only problem now is I've got no advantage points for next years pressies!)
I have thought about doing the whole homemade gifts but I am not very good at art/craft stuff :(
I am going to do a serious shop in the charity shops from now on though because we are totally totally skint.
how do I save at xmas?
ReplyDeletehmmmmmm interesting question.
At the begining of this year I sat down and did a list of all the people I had to buy birthday and xmas pressies for and went into town and spent £150 of my advantage points in the sale and didnt need to spend a penny!
I got damn near all the pressies I needed out of there and what I didnt get I went online when I got home (after writing down what each person was getting) and bought the rest from either play.com or findmeagift.com through quidco and got cheap items in the clearance and got cashback as well :)
Also I went through the top of my wardrobe and used what I could from pressies that I had recieved but not wanted and re-gifted them!
so here we are at xmas and even though we had everybody else's we are still struggling financially :(
so far for next year I have only 7 pressies to get because I have used stuff that I've had lying around the house and things that I have won at raffles
Unfortunately I do not have any more advantage points left so cant go crazy in the sales in there in January without breaking the bank balance!
the limit we have on xmas pressies for the family is £10 but usually I can 1/2 that if I buy in the sales