Tuesday, 5 February 2013

How did you get rid of your debt?




Hello Dear Reader,

A coffee a day? Cost - £480 a year! A newspaper a day? Cost - £240 a year!  Meal deal of the day at £3 a day - cost £720 a year! Cut and colour every other  month? Cost - £360 a year. Takeaway for two every Friday night? Cost - £780 a year! Meal out once a month on pay day at £30 a head for a couple - Cost - £720 a year! Total cost of the odds and ends? £2860 a year!!!!!! That was my past and now I'm so very much more content in the knowledge that giving those things up didn't kill me and my life is happy just as it is. We gave up the annual holiday whilst we concentrated on debt repayment and now, debt free can look forward to that tradition again, some time in the future. 

We were able to snow ball our debts but understand, especially from the people who email me that some of you don't know where to start, where to start economising. I know there are people who feel an annual holiday is essential for their emotional well-being although it could be argued that being debt free liberates us from stress. It's a choice people make for themselves. We're happy to cook from scratch, to shop in budget supermarkets and use their value brands, some people feel the need to stick the brands and supermarkets they are comfortable with. Again, it's a choice people have to make for themselves.

However, we live in uncertain times and we never know when those choices might be taken away from us. We never know what the economy holds as household names disappear from the high street and jobs become scarcer we may need to make economies sooner than we think. The following is a guest blog and will be of interest to anyone wanting debt advice, especially if the choice has already been take away from you in circumstances such as job loss. All I know is you will feel as if you have reached a mountain top on the day you pay off your last debt.


Ditching luxuries to ditch debt

Times are hard for many people in the UK at present. Job losses, benefit cuts and rising inflation have all taken their toll on people’s finances and often the only way to keep your head above water is by cutting back on non-essential items.The problem is working out what is a luxury and what is a necessity. Indeed, the term luxury is subjective. What some people believe they simply cannot live without can also be something which another person would never consider owning in the first place.

According to a recent study from life assurance and pensions specialist LV=, the average UK household spent £6,195 on luxuries during 2012 – a rise from £5,850 the year before.Some 23 per cent of those questioned said that they feel that holidays and short breaks are essential for their family, with average annual spending coming out at £3,250. On top of that 17 per cent said that their television subscription is something they cannot live without and 16 per cent said that they would not be prepared to have their hair cut and styled less no matter what happened to their finances.The same percentage were not prepared to sacrifice meals out and 15 per cent said they could not reduce the number of times they visit a bar or pub each week.



"The luxuries that we refuse to cut back on is a good barometer for how we're feeling as a nation,” said Mark Jones, head of protection at LV, “It is clear these lifestyle luxuries are central to many people's happiness and it is no surprise.” 
But an unwillingness to let go when times get tough can lead to serious financial problems. Of course, in an ideal world we’d all enjoy the luxuries we like but when the need to tighten your belt comes, it is important to make decisions and cut a few things.


If you find yourself in a position where making ends meet looks like being difficult in the near future then it is always a good idea to sit down and go through your finances thoroughly, or even speak to a company like
Debt Free Direct.This may sound like a chore but it really doesn’t need to take more than a couple of hours and you’ll be amazed where you can make savings.Indeed, many people pay for things without even realising it. When it comes to buying things like electrical items it is easy to forget about signing up for an extended warranty or repair service and yet the payments will keep coming out of your account each month.


Another area to consider is charitable donations. We all like to do our bit for those less fortunate them ourselves, but when finances get tight that old adage about charity beginning at home rings true. Check you direct debits and if you have money going out each money to charities, ask yourself if you can save this money and contribute in another way, such as making smaller cash donations into charity boxes or giving old and unwanted items to charity shops.

Another good way of saving money is by swapping luxury items for cheaper alternatives. While food is essential for sustaining our lives, buying brand names at heavily marked up prices isn’t. Most supermarkets will offer their own brand products and while the idea of buying these may not appeal to you, the difference in quality is minimal. Indeed, Martin Lewis, founder of MoneySavingExpert.com, has proven numerous times on television that most families cannot tell the difference between branded goods and supermarkets’ own makes once the packaging is taken away.
This shows that, like many things, brand names are often little more than luxuries which can be ditched and the money normally spent on them would be better used elsewhere.


Dearly Beloved and I took plenty of advice when we chose to pay off our personal borrowings before our mortgage and felt that advice paid off. When you're at the beginning of paying off debts,some advice can be a lifeline.

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxxxxxxx

22 comments:

  1. Great advice- the greatest release from stress is knowing you don't owe anyone a bean and you're living within your means. For peace of mind we are also building a nest egg for "just in case" before we take another holiday! Nowt wrong with Ourgate again this year!!!

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  2. I like a lot of the Aldi lines. The cheerio substitute is really good and a lot cheaper. Baked beans I will not go for anything but Heinz. I found there is more juice in the cheaper ones and it is thinner. I have tried many kinds from other well known brands and all the supermarket own. The only other ones I liked years ago was kwik save.

    Has kwik save gone under?

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    1. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kwik_Save

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    2. Don't know if it's true, but I heard years ago that tesco baked beans were made by Heinz.

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  3. I add a dash of tomatoe sauce to cheap beans. Passes the fussy kid test! Tea bags- I can't go value range but buy on special offer.

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    1. I can't drink cheap teabags. I bulk buy the pyramid ones when they are on good offers.

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  4. KWIK save went a few years ago, probably over 10, to be replaced by Aldi n lidl. Aldi is ace, it has a limited choice so your not tempted by "stuff" and that is where we save money. No extra stuff in your trolley makes a huge difference to us, £40 spent less than normal this week.



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    1. This is what I have found about Lidl, the limited choice is wonderful! It really does make buying what you actually need easy when there aren't a few hundred little temptations. Well, there's always that £4.68 bottle of Minervois but I have no excuse to be in its aisle.

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  5. You always talk so much sense. We are lucky enough to have paid off all debts (apart from mortgage, but that is miniscule compared to most as we have only 6 years to go and have never remortgaged). This has meant that I can now choose to work as a supply teacher and choose when and how often I work - the sense of freedom is enormous, I'm on top of your mountain! We still have the occasional takeaway, but we make sure it is on a "specials" night and share one between two. We do enjoy a weeks holiday each year, but it is and always has been a week self catering in the UK which I book early so that I can get the cheapest accommodation before it is fully booked. I menu plan for our holidays and buy non perishable items one a week in the run up to the holiday to take with us. I used to like buying magazines, but I stopped over a year ago and can honestly say I don't miss them. I would say to anyone trying to live a more frugal life, try living without that "essential", if you really can't manage without it you can always start to buy it again, but hey, I bet you won't really miss it!

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  6. Great post about (i think) how we all have to look very closely at our values, why we have them, how they are/or not serving us in order to start on the road of sorting out finances and taking control, before that decision is taken out of our hands. I now cringe and squirm about how I've just drifted and coasted along in life without any thought for the future....Now I'm loving every day of scrimping and saving. Despite loads of adjustments, I'm not even close to where I'd like to be, but thankfully I'm on my way with no thoughts of ever going back THERE, e.g. the guilty fuzziness of the daily Latte that made everything (now NOT!) OK; the c**p TV I rarely switched on for over £130 a year; sweating in my studio flat in January, because I was too distracted/lazy to work out the boiler timer settings and turn down the thermostat & radiators; buying oversalted, ready-made cauliflower cheese and yukki pizzas on the way home from work; drinking 4-5 pints of Guinness about 2-3 times a week at over £4 a go with the carbs & health hazards that went with that; dry cleaning the duvet for my very own toxins instead of dealing with it in the laundrette...etc etc. This is the first time i've posted on your blog. It seemed hypocritical not to take part after reading all your posts for many months and receiving so much inspiration. Looking forward to reading more. The best of luck to you and your DB (hope to find one of those myself someday!).

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    1. I think it's the first time I've posted too. She is amazing, Froogs I mean, not the cat's mother :)

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  7. If I bought a coffee a day from my local cafe it would cost me £839.50 for the year - ouch!!

    Linda xx

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  8. We were blessed with an inheritance. Rather than blowing it on fun stuff, we used it to fix up and sell our big house. That enabled us to make a profit, buy a house with lower expenses and wipe out all of that debt (although we carry a small mortgage). We never had credit card debt. Just a mortgage and line of credit -- but those were big expenses! Oh yes, and a trailer payment too. Before we got our gift, my guy worked two and sometimes three jobs. I was the house managing penny pincher.

    Just because you have money or a windfall doesn't mean you should blow through it.

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  9. Hi,

    I am reading this while eating my lunch I brought from home and it is delcious too. I make Mr FF cut my hair (it's long, how hard can it be?) and I colour it these days myself. I probably can afford to go to a hairdresser but I cannot be bothered parting with the $200 to $300 they'd carge.

    You are a true inspiration and I always feel stronger about Frugal Feb after I read your blog.

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  10. The words say it all here...'something they cannot live without...', 'were not prepared to...', 'could not reduce...',and the 'would not be prepared to...no matter what'! All said in quite a strong, affirmative tone, I'm guessing. It's surprising that we often can do the very things we say we are 'not prepared to do' -- when push comes to shove, backs against the wall and all that, we often surprise ourselves at what we can cut back on or do without, just how resilient/resourceful we can be. (Of course, Froogs here is a fantastic shining example...!). It's difficult when we've known times of comparative ease and plenty, to perhaps recall times when we (or others before us) had little or no other choice in these matters. Once we acknowledge and accept a situation, and the pain and discomfort accompanying it, we may then be willing to approach things differently. With a more open mind, we can weigh up other options and find the courage to make just one small change and 'try it on for size'...then another...and another...soon all those small changes are making a big difference. One example from my situation -- I used to look at the rows of hair colour in the supermarket or chemist and think, 'Why would anyone bother mucking about with that stuff? That's what hairdressers are for!' I now know why...in my case, 30-odd quid!! In the end it comes down to 'What do you want more -- lovely £5 locks, or lovely £35 locks?? For me, that extra £30 can be quite a lot of lolly. It could mean quality school shoes, an enjoyable family day out during half-term, £30 towards a bill, enough petrol in one car for a week, a new coat!
    I love my '£5 locks from a Box'; however, I love my '£30 change' even more, ha ha! Hmm...choices, choices!

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  11. Sorry, Froogs (and everyone)...had to dash off quickly to an appointment this morning, forgot to put my name -- did not intend it to be an anonymous post! Apologies.
    Wendy.

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  12. Hey Froogs, great advice (again).
    I don't buy the paper, I read it online. If I've got a gazillion megabites available to me, why not use them?
    Also, regarding brands : I am kind of fussy about a few of them because past experience with some budget ones has left me unhappy about what I got for my money. For one lot of brands in particular, we are really lucky to have a surplus store that is run by the company and it always has my favourites at great prices, and sometimes you don't have to buy heaps of them to get the really good price.

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  13. After reading this post today I was reminded about what my husband said awhile ago about his family from Europe. He has family in Portugal (most of them live right in Lisbon). He said although they are not wealthy, they tend to go out alot. They eat out at cafes and this happens during the week and on weekends. They seem to spend money on entertaining themselves and not on other items such as large houses, lots of clothing, big cars, etc. Since I don't see them and don't really know anything personal about them, I don't know their income and so therefore, can't really say they are being extravagant in their lifestyles. All I can say is I can't do what they do and pay my bills and live within my means. The only thing I can say is maybe they use their money differently than we do and have less material things so they have more money to spend on socializing and eating out. I guess it depends on what you want out of life and what's important to you. They rent apartments (small ones) and don't really need cars on a daily basis since they live in the city. So I think it depends on where you live and how you want to live your life. I don't think it's necessarily how you spend money, but what your priorities are. If you don't have a mortgage and pay a reasonable amount for rent, you might have money left over to do some of the nicer things like meeting up with friends at a cafe instead of sitting in a small apartment all evening. It's a different lifestyle I guess.

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  14. Froogs, you have been SUCH an inspiration to me lately. I hope you will enjoy my blogpost today. It is all about you. :-) With many thanks, Linda HomeForGood.NET

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  15. And tomorrow I'm going to the hairdresser for a cut and colour for the first time in twelve years - But only because I broke my wrist and can barely brush it, the length it is now.
    We are lucky we managed to move house last year, reducing the mortgage, council tax, gas, electricity and water bills in one go. It was like suddenly having a bit more air to breathe, and definitely a bit less stress when the unexpected happens!

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  16. Good common sense advice as usual from Froogs.

    One quite important point, though - if you need debt advice, there are several good not-for-profit organisations that can help you. The organisation mentioned in the guest post here is one that will charge you a fee and monthly percentage. You can get the same level of advice and help by using someone like Step Change Debt Charity, without having to pay any fees. Always best to get all the facts before you sign up for anything, of course!

    Jane

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    1. The website mentioned, was the guest blogger and I checked that there is plenty of advice for free on their site and some of it was very similar to the advice we were given about paying off debts. IVAs are common if people have unsecured debt and find themselves without a job and have to declare bankrupt - you can set them up for next to nothing though the local courts.

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